The Art Of Flirting - How To Flirt With Women

The Art Of Flirting - How To Flirt With Women
by Joseph Matthews

We will begin with a question.

Have you ever been stuck in the friend mode with a woman you meet and like, despite all your best romantic efforts?

Do you ever wonder why this happens?

Chances are it is because you did not flirt correctly with the woman.

Since flirting is a vital element in the process of attraction and you do not do it correctly, or even worse, not at all, you may be leaving your opportunity to be with the woman up to chance.

What is the importance of flirting?

The answer is simple really; the process of flirting creates sexual tension.

When there is no sexual tension within your interactions, there will be no attraction. When you do not have attraction, this places you in a different category.

You guessed it - A FRIEND!

So when you know the proper way to flirt with a girl, your chances of attracting her go up exponentially.

Flirting is a lot of fun and not so much a secret as some might consider, however when done incorrectly it will not work.

The art of flirting with women is all about communicating your romantic interest in the woman rather than just letting the cat out of the bag.

Mixed signals are what this is.

Your words communicate something different than your actions are communicating.

Some of the more common mistakes of flirting with women that men make may include:

MISTAKE #1: They Are Way Too Obvious

Some men find it overwhelming when they feel attraction to a woman and then spit it all out at once letting her know how they feel. This type of presentation of information places the woman at a disadvantage of deciding what she feels for the man.

Keep in mind, by not laying the groundwork properly beforehand, you risk the chance of finding rejection from the woman.

MISTAKE #2: Not Being Obvious Enough!

If you make no effort to communicate your interest, yet think the woman will just know what you feel, when you do make a move it surprises the woman, because up until that point she has no idea of your interest.

MISTAKE #3: They Rely More On Words Than Actions

Flirting has a good deal to do with the words you use; however, non-verbal body language is a more powerful method. These are those little things such as, tilting your head, raising an eyebrow or casting a wicked little smile, since they give new meaning to otherwise innocent remarks.

MISTAKE #4: Taking Things Too Seriously

Flirting, when done right, is light and fun. When guys try and make flirting more serious romantic gestures, the tension begins to break down.

If you're not having fun when flirting - and more importantly, if the girl isn't having fun - then you are doing something WRONG.

Although, there are other mistakes, these few should give you some ideas. Would you like to learn the proper way to begin flirting?

You're going to want to use as much sexual innuendo as you can. This is a great way to flirt. But the key here is to be SUBTLE.

Let us say you are at a bar, for example and the woman you are with orders a drink and then asks if you would like one as well, you can jokingly say to her, You aren't trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me, are you, while adding a nod and a wink.

Flirting communicates your attraction, although you never come right out and say it. Flirting is a lighthearted fun form of insinuation.

Another example may be, when a woman makes a sexy remark, you say to her, Stop trying to tempt me, you vixen, you know I never kiss a woman on the first date.

Do you understand how all this works?

As you begin flirting more and more, you begin to get a bit more obvious about your interests, although you never really step over that line.

You will notice how the attraction between you and the woman begins to build. Then one day you find that a harmless bit of flirting has turned into seduction.

And that is when the real fun begins.

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