Learn To Approach Any Woman

Learn To Approach Any Woman
by Joseph Matthews

Every man out there should learn how to approach women, because if he doesn't, he is missing out on the vital first step for finding the girl of his dreams and forming a relationship with her...

You have to know how to approach a girl in the right manner if you want to have success with your pickup. The following are some proven tips I'd recommend you do to help you be successful in meeting women!

Have you ever approached a girl with what you thought was the best pickup line ever, but she freaked out when you tapped her on the shoulder?

Know this - getting shot down has little to do with what you were going to say or what your intentions were. It's all about how you go about actually approaching your target. It's important to do this right the first time, because it's hard to recover when you make a mistake right off the bat.

The most important thing to remember when approaching women is to come off as NON-THREATENING and to not, under any circumstances, telegraph your interest in them too early.

This is known as "coming in under the radar."

Understand: Most women have trained themselves to just REJECT men outright when they sense they are being picked up on.

Most men don't realize how annoying it can be for women to constantly be approached by guys who run the gamut from big time loser to big time creep. Because of this, women just don't want to deal with yet "another pick-up attempt."

But despite all this, the girl WILL be receptive to you if you know how to approach her in the RIGHT WAY.

So let's talk about the right way to approach any woman...

First of all - DO NOT HESITATE.

If you hesitate and let the opportunity pass you by, you're never going to experience success. Giving yourself time to talk yourself out of approaching a girl will never get you anywhere, so it's important you act quickly and JUST DO IT.

Next, know before-hand what you're going to say. This makes the act of approaching women so much easier, because you don't have to waste time thinking of something to talk about before you approach.

When it comes to a situation like this, you should probably have a good, proven "pick up line" memorized that will help start a conversation.

But don't confuse the term "pick up line" with sleazy saying like "Nice shoes, let's have sex!" The goal here is to be NON-THREATENING, remember?

Great pick up lines simply engage women in innocent conversation. So asking her opinion on something and then talking about it is always preferable to a sleazy or funny line that you've seen on TV.

An important tip you should be aware of is to always approach a woman at an angle instead of charging towards her like you're going to war! When you approach at an angle, it's much less confrontational and you're going to subconsciously put the woman more at ease than if you approached her head-on.

Remember: great pick ups can only happen when the girl is comfortable with you. That's why it's so important for YOU to feel comfortable when you're talking to girls!

If you feel uncomfortable approaching women, the best way to build your comfort level is to go out and practice meeting as many women as you can until you GET comfortable with it!

The sad fact is, you're not going to get good at approaching women if all you do is sit around reading about it and studying it like a test. If you want to get good and have success, you actually have to go out and DO IT so you can build your experience level. (The good news - it gets easier the more you do it!)

If you're worried about being rejected, just look at it as a game. The ONLY thing you're doing is approaching women. You're not asking her out, you're not trying to get her into bed, your only goal is to carry on some type of conversation.

That's all you need to do!

See how many girls you can talk to in one night, and keep trying to beat your score.

Finally, use a "time constraint" when approaching women. This is as simple as telling her you've only got a minute to talk to her because you've got to get back to your friends or whatever you're doing.

You want to do this because if she feels this approach is just a "momentary" distraction, and you're not trying to "impose" yourself on her, she'll be more willing to engage you in your approach.

The beauty of this is that if the conversation picks up and is going well, she'll forget that you used a time constraint, and you can actually talk to her as long as you want. Using a good time constraint is just a way to make the approach easier in the beginning.

In the world of dating, it all boils down to a numbers game. The more women you meet, the better your chances of finding your soul mate.

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