How To Pick Up Women

How To Pick Up Women
by Joseph Matthews

Are you struggling when it comes to finding, meeting, and picking up women? If so, here are some guidelines to help you succeed in finding the women of your dreams!

Do you want to go out and pick up a woman tonight, but have no clue where to start?

Most of your friends probably don't know how to pick up women. Your dad probably doesn't know (and lord knows your mom couldn't tell you)! Even the dating "experts" that you see in the media wouldn't be able to give you the proper tactics on how to pick up women, because if they did - they'd never be able to appear on TV again! (Let's face it, the mainstream media is extremely feminist and looks down upon anything that could help guys get laid!).

Bottom line: Picking up women is not a politically-correct topic!

You want some practical advice that can really work, that you can start to use right away. Fortunately, you found this article. So let's get started!

First of all, let's cover what you DON'T need to pick up women.

You DON'T need to look like a "male model."

This is a big mistake most men make. Understand that about 85% of women actually care more about how a man can make them FEEL than how the man actually LOOKS.

So if you don't think you're a good looking guy, fear not! You're not out of the game yet.

Second, you DON'T have to spend a lot of money or drive an expensive car!

Some of the best pick up artists I've ever met never spend more than $30 when on a date, and many of them didn't even own a car! (And if they did, it wasn't a very nice one!)

You'll find that women can be very forgiving when it comes to how much money you make or spend on them, if they LIKE you! And part of picking up women is to get the girl to like you, right?

Lastly, you DON'T need big muscles, be a certain nationality or ethnicity, be famous, or any other things you can think of.

Look - No matter what obstacle you think you have when it comes to getting a girl to like you, having a great personality trumps them all!

When you know the right way to talk to women, nothing else matters.

You may not be able to have phenomenal success with these tactics right away if you're just starting out. But if you take the time to start applying these tactics and actually learn from your experiences, you'll find your success with women will dramatically improve.

In order to learn the quickest, you'll want to go out as often as you can - particularly when you're first starting. You don't have to go to nightclubs or other high-pressure environments to meet women, but they are great "practice grounds" because there are SO MANY women there to meet and talk to.

But regardless, make a point of going out to pick up women a certain number of times a week - after all, practice makes perfect!

You probably won't have much success at first when you start going to clubs, but other people will actually start notice a change in you as your confidence goes up. Every success and failure in nightclubs will also helps to reinforce the things you need to do when you're picking up women, and the things you need to avoid.

Remember: The more experience you have, the easier it'll be.

The most important thing to remember about going out to pick up women is to gain experience!

When you're going out to pick up women and gain experience, it's important to look as good as you possibly can!

(Notice here that I'm not saying you have to be "good looking." I'm saying you need to "look good." There is a big difference between the two. You don't have any say about what you look like, but you DO have a say in your appearance - your hairstyle, the clothes you wear, what cologne you put on, etc.)

Dress for success: Wear clothing that fits you, that's color-coordinated and looks good on you. If you have fashion-conscious friends who can help you pick out a wardrobe (particularly if they're women), now's the time to recruit them.

Dressing nicely to meet women is not mandatory - you don't NEED to do it. However, it will make the process of meeting women much easier (women do like men who take pride in their appearance). Also, the nicer your dress, the more confident you'll feel!

Always be on the lookout for pickup opportunities. Attractive women are everywhere, and it's always a bad idea to let an opportunity to meet one of them slip you by!

Finally, its important to remember that a good pick up follows an easy-to-use structure. This means there's steps you can follow to get a specific result EVERY TIME you go out to meet women.

The structure is:

Find a girl.

Meet her.

Talk and Gain Rapport.

Build Attraction.

These four simple steps is all you need! You'll find that if you can just meet the women you want and gain rapport with them, you'll easily be able to build attraction with them too.

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