How To Date Women - Dating Secrets For Men

How To Date Women - Dating Secrets For Men
by Joseph Matthews

When you consider dating a woman, more than likely you consider dinner and a movie, right?

Going out and doing stuff with the girl. Getting to know her, and all that jazz.

Consider for a moment that this is a misconception about dating.

Most men understand dating a woman, as a concept for a sensual ulterior motive; however, this is not always the case.

Let's go over some of the most common mistakes guys make when "dating" a girl...

Mistake #1: Dates are simply to impress a woman.

Often men might feel like they have something to prove while on a date, to get the woman to like them. They seem to think that taking a woman to some fancy and memorable place and bragging about their accomplishments makes them seem important.

Mistake #2: Guys think they can buy their way into a woman's heart.

Sadly, many men think that if they spend enough money on a woman, they can get her to sleep with them. This is always (and has always been) a bad idea. Aside from the gold diggers in the world, most women don't care how much you're spending on a date.

Mistake #3: Activities are meaningless!

Since spending time together does not equal a romantic interest, going out with someone does not mean as much as you would think it does, therefore, doing the dinner and a movie date, does not mean the girl will be attracted to you.

Mistake #4: Men become boring!

If there are no sparks of chemistry, the date is a dud, this can happen, when men get nervous on their dates. Most often, these men continually talk about ordinary subjects while they show little to none of their sparkling personality. They just go through the motions with hopes of not messing up their date.

Mistake #5: The patterns of failure.

Some men have a preconceived ideal of dating, how they think things should happen, and then they rigidly follow that perception. They may go out on a dinner date, while they ask her all the same questions as their other dates. This eliminates all the spontaneous fun of interacting with the woman.

What does dating a woman mean?

Simple: Dating is the process of building comfort, strengthening emotional connections, and building attraction!

It does not matter how much you spend or where you may go, what does matter is how you build your connection with a woman, while encouraging her feelings for you.

You will notice that this is the major factor in the difference of going on cheap dates while truly romancing a woman and that of spending a great deal of money and getting nowhere fast.

Your entire focus while dating a girl should be "how can I become more emotionally connected to this girl?"

You should be open to talking about your shared passions and interests, while trying to figure out what her hopes and dreams may be.

Learn to rephrase your questions, rather than wanting to know where she works, ask her some interesting and fun questions, such as If you could do anything you wish, what would you wish to do?

Above all, you should just have fun and enjoy yourself!

Crack jokes - even if they're not good. Have fun. Steer the conversation toward subjects she finds interesting. Be curious about who she is.

Above all, do not be to shy to bring up romance.

Some men fear bringing up the subject of romance while out on a date, however, to build sexual tension while magnifying the attraction, you must.

Relax and be a bit wicked by flirting and joking with your date about romance women enjoy this as well. Therefore, if you do not, you have no means of building the attraction of the woman you date onto a higher level.

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